Picking Up the Pieces After a Relationship Ends

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Picking Up the Pieces After a Relationship Ends

By  · On September 5, 2013

When a relationship ends, or fails, you’re often left with yourself trying to pick up the pieces and pull yourself back together.  When a relationship ends, we go through a sort of mourning process.  It’s a sort of death.  One part of our life is now gone while a new journey begins.  But in the midst of our despair, it’s hard to see any positivity or potential for a brighter future.

Some people manage better after the end of a relationship while others turn to destructive behaviors.  Make sure you keep yourself healthy after a break up.  Exercise, eat right and try to stay positive.  Don’t listen to that evil little voice in your head that’s telling you you’re going to be alone and single forever.  Don’t listen to that little voice that’s going to tell you you’ll never find anyone better.

If a relationship ends, it’s for a reason.  You need to have faith that it just wasn’t meant to be.  You can still have those fond memories of when things were good, but don’t forget the bad ones.  Don’t forget the reasons why it ended in the first place.

You need to stay strong and focus on yourself.  Always remember that you are the most important piece of your life and no one can take that away from you.  No one can take everything that you are.  And if you find that you’ve lost parts of yourself in a relationship, take this time to find them again.  Remember who you once were but also who you’ve grown to be.

Life is constantly changing and so are we.  We grow and it’s a continual learning process.  Don’t feel less than you are and don’t feel like you’re worthless.  These elements can be crippling, but during this time you have to pick up the pieces and pull yourself together.  You can choose to turn it into a positive experience.  Walk away from it with dignity and the fact that you’ve learned throughout it.



One Response to “Picking Up the Pieces After a Relationship Ends”

  1. TheDisfigured October 16, 2013 at 7:11 pm #

    Death is a part of life, and life is full of fresh discoveries. Nice post. Gave me a warm feeling inside.

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