Once the War Has Been Waged

18 Feb


It’s funny when a relationship ends sometimes the other person can become a complete stranger. They become insensitive, cruel, vindictive, immature or just plain mean.  You see sides to a person that you loved that you never even knew existed. 

It almost makes you grateful that the relationship ended in the first place.  It’s better to see this side of them sooner than later.  Imagine if you married them and it was ‘til death do you part. 

Some say people never change, but I think they do.  People change; sometimes it’s for the best and sometimes it’s for the worst.  You can’t control them, though.  You can’t force someone to change.  I feel like people often make the mistake of thinking they can change someone and mold them into the person they want them to be.  It’s not true.  A leopard can’t change it’s spots. 

During a fight or a break up or an incident where the other person isn’t getting their way, you see true character.  Remember that when you think they were the right person for you.   Remember that side of them when they want to get back together.  Know your worth and know you’re worth more than being treated unfairly.  Hold on to yourself and don’t let them get the best of you.  Be the one to walk away with dignity. 


2 Responses to “Once the War Has Been Waged”

  1. Samantha Nicolette February 19, 2013 at 1:50 am #

    well spoken! I needed to hear this

    • Daily Rants with the Bitch Next Door February 19, 2013 at 5:04 am #

      I’m glad u found something that helped u in the right moment. That’s all I can hope for, helping at least one person through my experiences and my writing. Thanks for commenting. Maybe I needed to hear that

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